Tuesday, October 5, 2010


How long does it take one to form a connection with another person?
Some people may take days, months or even years.. some just minutes.. (probably)
In my line of work, connecting with people around me may come naturally but then again, after a decade of teaching I do find that there are still some relationships (with students) that need to be worked on. It is really impossible to `connect' with everyone and to those few that I do click with.. well, that I call chemistry.. :)

Anyway, in these recent months I've acquired new friends through the sharing of the same hobby.. Maybe it's because we meet up only for that purpose, so it bugs me that I run out of things to say when we hang out. I mean, is that all we have in common? Our passion for cycling..? Or have I gone out of practice when it comes to making friends..

I once read an article about meeting up with old friends. The sad truth that it revealed is that when you finally meet old friends again after 2 decades, you just don't have anything in common anymore to share. I mean, yeah, you went to school together once and were close.. but after years of separation you just can't connect at the same level anymore. Even despite being facebook friends! (maybe I should delete them from my list.. haha)

Back to my point on CONNECTIONS.. simply put, there are just some people who you can connect with and sadly there are some who even if you want to, it will not happen. No use beating yourself up to find out why..

I'm lucky to still have a group of friends (from Uni years) who are still my most cherished and trusted friends till this day.. I feel sad too for some friendships that have ceased to exist due to distance, years of separation, etc.. but I suppose that's only natural in life.

I believe in the saying that you can be friends with many but keep only a few who are close to you. They'll be the ones who you can really count on.

I hope to form more friendships in the future but will also tread with caution lest I get carried away by the thrill of new friends..

Despite all that has been said here, friendship is definitely worth investing in. So, hold on to good friends, nurture the relationship and learn to keep it alive. Naturally, you'll form a connection that will last for decades.. InsyaAllah..


Diana. Z said...

Hi Ms Shereen,

Nice post!~ Its sad to say but really.. to some point the article is true.

But I guess thats why we have memories right? We keep it nice and sweet in the memory compartment of the brain.

Chemistry is one thing but understanding is another I guess because sometimes keeping in touch with your close friends can be tough too.

Anyways, I miss English class... and Daas. OMG, can't believe I said that. Hahah..

He hates me soo much. I lol'ed at that. :P

Sher said...

Di!! I miss all of you.. a LOT! We can still meet up dear since your around.. Pick a time and place.. Haha.. you + Daas + the love-hate relationship.. miss that too.. ;) Take care dear!

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